Amy. . . I'm so sad to read your review.
Your tone sounds so different than the day we met in our office. We intentionally waited to meet with you as not to interrupt your beautiful time on Maui and Wedding day.
Doing research is what we as owners sometimes have to do to gather information on the goings on in our properties. You broke house rules by using the property for unauthorized gatherings, plain and simple.
When the maximum occupancy rule is broken, and in your case you advertised the house as "The Wedding Headquarters" and we see 40 - 50 people inside and on the grounds, of course we are going to start asking questions.
As far as communication being a problem, I don't understand that as you know I was always available for you and came in to do a mid-stay cleaning for you and your guests.
I feel that if you would have been honest and upfront about your plans, we could have avoided heartache.
Good luck to you and our warmest Aloha